Strawberry Paloma Sour

This refreshing Paloma riff with trawberry shrub. Perfectly balanced between tart, sweet, and salty.

Because every drink deserves a beautiful moment.

A short glass filled with crushed ice and a vibrant pink strawberry Paloma, garnished with a grapefruit wheel. A fresh strawberry and lime slice rest on the marble surface beside the glass, with a dark background adding contrast.

Ingredients

2 oz blanco tequila
1 oz strawberry shrub
2 oz grapefruit juice
0.5 oz lime juice
Pinch of salt
Sparkling water to top
Ice
Garnish: Grapefruit wedge or salted rim

Instructions

Add tequila, strawberry shrub, grapefruit juice, lime juice, and a pinch of salt to a shaker with ice.
Shake until well chilled.
Strain into a glass filled with fresh ice.
Top with sparkling water.
Garnish with a grapefruit wheel or a salted rim.

Notes from the Bar

That Signature Strawberry Shrub

This cocktail features our homemade strawberry shrub, which adds a juicy twist and light acidity. It needs to be made ahead, since the fruit sits in sugar for 24 hours before vinegar is added. Find the shrub recipe here.

Crushed Ice > Cubes

This one shines over crushed or nugget ice, which gives it a summery, refreshing texture. Bonus: it holds the grapefruit garnish beautifully in place.

Rim or No Rim

We like a salted rim for added complexity, but it’s just as good with a clean pour and fresh fruit on top.

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This cocktail is part of something bigger for us. It's a ritual we return to week after week.

Each week, we create a Date Nite designed around one drink, one thoughtful menu, and the feeling of slowing down together. The kind of night where the table is set with intention, the music hums softly in the background, and the evening unfolds without rushing.

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