French Blonde

Gin, Lillet Blanc, elderflower, and fresh grapefruit — floral, bright, and citrus-forward with a quiet bittersweet finish.

This cocktail is part of our Date Nite collection, made to be sipped while you cook together.

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Ingredients

2 ounces fresh grapefruit juice
2 ounces Lillet Blanc
1 ounce gin
½ ounce elderflower liqueur
3 dashes lemon bitters
Grapefruit peel

Cocktail Method

Place a coupe glass in the freezer for 5 minutes.
In a cocktail shaker filled with ice, add the grapefruit juice, Lillet Blanc, gin, elderflower liqueur, and lemon bitters.
Shake vigorously for 15–20 seconds until well chilled.
Double strain into the chilled coupe glass.
Garnish with a grapefruit peel.

Notes from the Bar

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Lemon Bitters swap

If you don’t have lemon bitters, substitute ½ ounce of fresh lemon juice. The drink will taste a little brighter and more citrus-forward, while bitters add a subtle complexity and depth.

No Lillet Blanc?

Lillet Blanc can be hard to find. Cocchi Americano or dry vermouth both make good stand-ins without changing the drink too much.

Elderflower Liqueur

We use St-Germain in this cocktail. Most liquor stores carry a smaller 375ml bottle, which is perfect if you don’t use it often.

Choose Your Glassware

Serve in a chilled coupe glass for the most elegant presentation. A Nick & Nora glass also works well if that’s what you have on hand.

Garnish Options

A grapefruit peel adds a lovely aroma with each sip. If you don’t have grapefruit, try a lemon twist instead.

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Our cocktails are part of something bigger for us. They’re the beginning of Date Nite, a connection-centered experience we created to help you slow down, share a meal, and enjoy time with the one you love.

Each Date Nite is thoughtfully planned for you, so you are not stuck deciding what to cook or how to pull the night together. We pair one cocktail with a complete menu, a simple flow from prep to plate, and small details that make the evening feel easy and connected from start to finish.

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