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Habit Stacking at Home: Small Shifts That Make a Big Impact

  • Writer: SK Carr
    SK Carr
  • Jul 28
  • 4 min read

Updated: Oct 20


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I’ve always been good at habits. I like rhythm, routine, and flow. But that doesn’t mean I enjoy every task.


Take the bathroom.


For the longest time, it was my least favorite chore. I’d put it off. Avoid it. Tell myself I’ll do it later. And then suddenly it’s been two weeks and the sink is dusty, the tub looks questionable, and I’m annoyed at myself for letting it get this far.


Enter habit stacking.


If you’ve read Atomic Habits by James Clear, you know what I’m talking about. It’s a book packed with wisdom, and honestly, I’d love to read it again. But even if I never do, there’s one idea from that book that stuck with me: stack a new habit onto something you already do consistently.


That’s the thing about self-help books. You don’t have to remember every chapter for them to make a difference. If one tool clicks into place and actually changes how you live, that’s enough, and that’s a win.


So here’s what I started doing.


Every single week, I wash our towels, bathmat, and sheets. I never miss it. That rhythm is locked in. So I decided to build on it. The second those towels go into the wash, I clean the bathroom. Every time. No debate.


I also throw in our clear shower curtain liner (which, let’s be honest, gets nasty). It probably doesn’t need to be washed weekly, but I’d rather not track that. Plus we have double-sided hooks that makes it super easy to take it on and off, so why not?


Once that liner is off, I scrub the tub (it’s so easy with nothing in the way), wipe down the toilet, the sink, the counters, and the floor. Then, by the time the towels are dry, they go back into a freshly cleaned bathroom. The liner goes back up, and the whole room feels good again.


And here’s the kicker: it only takes 15 minutes. Maybe 20 if I’m really deep cleaning, but not more than that.


I used to build it up in my head as this huge task. But now? It’s just part of the weekly rhythm.


View into a vintage-style bathroom with a midcentury chair, towel draped over the back, exposed water heater, hamper, and mirrored medicine cabinet.

Why Habit Stacking at Home Works

Habit stacking at home isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what needs to be done in a way that feels easier, because it flows with what you’re already doing.


Here are a few other stacks I’ve noticed (or use myself):


Simple Habit Stacks for the Home

Kitchen

  • While making your morning coffee → unload or load the dishwasher

  • While putting away groceries → toss anything old or expired in the fridge drawer

  • While waiting for pasta or water to boil → wipe down the often-missed areas of the countertop

  • Before bed while setting the coffee → load the dishwasher + wipe the sink


Living Areas

  • After vacuuming → dust the surfaces (coffee table, TV stand, shelves)

  • When lighting a candle → tidy the remotes, fluff the pillows, reset the space


Bedroom

  • When changing your sheets → wipe down the bedside tables


Entryway

  • When bringing in the mail → immediately toss or recycle anything you don’t need


Woman taking a mirror selfie in a cozy bathroom lit with twinkle lights.

The Emotional Connection to Habits

We often think that if something feels good, it should be easy to keep doing it. But I’ve learned that’s not always true.


Take the bathroom. I always felt better after it was clean. I loved the fresh start, the shine, the calm, but I still procrastinated. That emotional payoff wasn’t strong enough to override the resistance. Why? I think part of it was frequency. I wasn’t cleaning it often enough to really connect to the feeling of it being clean. Sometimes I’d let it go three or four weeks, which I hate to admit, but it’s true. And I know I’m not alone in that.


Contrast that with our sheets. I wash them weekly. Every single week. Not just for sanitation, but because I love how it feels to slide into a bed with clean, fresh sheets. Honestly, I’d do it twice a week if I had the time. That consistent rhythm reinforces the reward. It keeps me motivated.


Now that I’m cleaning the bathroom weekly too, alongside the towel and sheet wash, I’m noticing that same emotional connection growing. The reward isn’t just the one-time result. It’s the rhythm. The consistency. The knowing that this space will feel good every single week, not just occasionally. And at the end of the day, it really just feels good showing up for yourself and your home on a regular basis.


Sometimes, for the emotional payoff to land, the habit has to be regular enough for your body to expect the good feeling on the other side.



Try It on for Size

If you want to try habit stacking at home, don’t overthink it. Start by noticing the things you already do consistently.


Then ask:

  • Where in your home do you show up naturally, without resistance?

  • Where do you avoid or procrastinate?

  • Is there a small habit you could anchor to an existing one?


It used to feel like a chore.


Now, it feels like momentum.

Like order.

Like calm.


All because I stopped waiting for the motivation to strike and started stacking it onto something I was already doing.



We'd Love to Hear From You:


Do you have a habit stack that’s helped you stay on top of chores or feel more grounded in your space? Or is there one chore that always gets pushed to the bottom of your list?


Drop a comment below. We'd love to know what’s working (or not working) in your home right now.



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