A deep ruby hibiscus mocktail served over crushed ice in a patterned rocks glass, garnished with a lime wheel and dried hibiscus petals.

Spiced Hibiscus Paloma (N/A)

A vibrant, citrus-forward mocktail with tart grapefruit, fresh lime, and a softly spiced hibiscus base. Bold in color, balanced in flavor, and lightly sparkling.

This cocktail is part of our Date Nite collection, made to be sipped while you cook together.

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Ingredients

2 ounces cold water
2 ounces fresh grapefruit juice
1 ounce spiced hibiscus syrup (full recipe here)
½ ounce fresh lime juice
Soda water, to top

Cocktail Method

Add the cold water, grapefruit juice, spiced hibiscus syrup, and lime juice to a shaker.
Add ice and shake until well chilled.
Strain into a rocks glass filled with fresh ice.
Top with soda water and give a gentle stir.
Garnish with a lime wheel or dried hibiscus flowers.

Notes from the Bar

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SPICED HIBISCUS SYRUP

We make our own for this one — it's ginger-forward, keeps in the fridge for up to three weeks, and works across a whole collection of cocktails. Full recipe here.

Hibiscus Flavor

Hibiscus brings a naturally tart, cranberry-like flavor and a rich ruby color that makes this mocktail feel special without being sweet.

Dried Hibiscus Flowers

Dried hibiscus flowers are used to make the syrup and also work beautifully as a garnish. → Link to dried hibiscus flowers

Seasonal Variation

If you prefer a brighter, lighter version for summer, you can make a simple hibiscus syrup without the warming spices. Steep dried hibiscus flowers in hot water, strain, then stir in sugar to taste. It is fresher and more straightforward, with less depth than the spiced version.

Citrus Balance

Fresh grapefruit and lime keep this drink crisp and refreshing. Adjust the lime slightly if your grapefruit is especially sweet or tart.

Ice Choice

Crushed or pebble ice softens the tartness and keeps the drink extra cold.

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Each Date Nite is thoughtfully planned for you, so you are not stuck deciding what to cook or how to pull the night together. We pair one cocktail with a complete menu, a simple flow from prep to plate, and small details that make the evening feel easy and connected from start to finish.

It is not about perfection. It is about presence, and creating space to reconnect, whether that is with your partner or simply with yourself, over a really good meal.

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