A soft pink gin gimlet style cocktail served in a coupe glass, finished with a delicate layer of butterfly pea flower tea and garnished with a dried citrus wheel.

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Our wedding cocktail — a clean botanical gin gimlet finished with an optional butterfly pea flower drizzle for a soft blush and a quiet floral note.

This cocktail is part of our Date Nite collection, made to be sipped while you cook together.

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COCKTAIL RECIPE

Makes 1 cocktail

2 oz botanical gin
1 oz fresh lemon juice
1/2 to 3/4 oz simple syrup, to taste
Butterfly pea flower tea, optional
Lemon wheel, for garnish.

Add the gin and lemon juice to a shaker with ice and shake briefly, then taste and add simple syrup to your liking. Shake vigorously for 15 to 20 seconds until well chilled, then double strain into a chilled coupe. Gently drizzle a small amount of butterfly pea flower tea over the top, if using, and garnish with a lemon wheel or dried citrus slice.

NOTES FROM THE BAR

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A Wedding Cocktail

This cocktail was served at our wedding as a signature drink. It’s simple, elegant, and quietly celebratory, making it perfect for meaningful moments without feeling fussy.

Butterfly Pea Flower Tea

The pea flower tea is optional, but it adds a soft floral layer and creates a subtle color contrast that makes the drink feel special. A light drizzle is all you need. → Link to our butterfly pea flower tea

Sweetness Adjustment

Start with ½ oz simple syrup for a brighter, more classic gimlet profile. Increase to ¾ oz if you prefer a softer, more rounded finish.

Gin Selection

We served this cocktail with Uncle Val’s Botanical Gin at our wedding and also love it with Esmé Botanical Gin. A citrus-forward gin works beautifully as well.

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Our cocktails are part of something bigger for us. They’re the beginning of Date Nite, a connection-centered experience we created to help you slow down, share a meal, and enjoy time with the one you love.

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