Grapefruit Aperol Margarita

A tequila margarita built with fresh grapefruit, Aperol, and a squeeze of lime. Lightly sweetened with agave, bitter-citrusy, and a little more interesting than your average margarita.

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INGREDIENTS

1 oz tequila
1 oz Aperol
2 oz fresh grapefruit juice
1/2 oz fresh lime juice
1/4 oz agave
Agave and margarita salt for the rim
Grapefruit slice, for garnish

COCKTAIL METHOD

Rim a rocks glass with agave and Tajín. Fill with crushed ice.
Add tequila, Aperol, grapefruit juice, lime juice, and agave to a shaker with ice.
Shake until well chilled, about 15 seconds.
Strain into the prepared glass.
Garnish with a grapefruit slice.

Notes from the Bar

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APEROL IN A MARGARITA

Aperol replaces the traditional triple sec here, adding a bittersweet orange note that pairs really well with grapefruit. It also gives the drink that warm, peachy-orange color.

ADJUST AGAVE TO TASTE

We use 1/4 oz to let the grapefruit stay front and center. If you prefer a slightly sweeter drink, bump it to 1/2 oz.

salt RIM

We prefer this margarita with a salt rim, but you can also use Tajín salt or a spicy margarita salt. → Link to our favorite pink himalayan margarita salt

TEQUILA RECOMMENDATION

A clean and citrus-forward blanco tequila works best here. Espolòn or Olmeca Altos are solid everyday options.

FRESH GRAPEFRUIT

Fresh-squeezed makes a real difference in this one. Bottled grapefruit juice tends to be sweeter and less bright, which throws off the balance.

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