becoming her
My Journey of Healing, Love & Self-Discovery
Over the past ten years, I’ve been gathering pieces of myself. One truth, one pattern, one breakthrough at a time. Each season has offered its own invitation to go deeper, to soften, and to become.
It began with a mirror. I realized I was the common thread in my own experiences. Not the men I had dated. Not the stories I told myself. Just me, looking directly at me.
That’s where the work began. I turned inward and I asked, Who am I in love? And more importantly, Who do I want to be in partnership and marriage?
I built a vision of the woman I wanted to become and spent time developing into her, a woman grounded in her heart, clear in her worth, and ready for a radical, honest love.
Once I became her, Kevin arrived and the next chapter began. Healing the relationship with my body, food, and self-perceptions. Unraveling old rules and quieting old voices. It was here that Kevin became my mirror and my greatest teacher. Not the kind that distorts, but the kind that reflects deep love, acceptance, and admiration. It turned into my second layer of radical, honest (self) love.
As I grew, my bigger purpose also began to stir. I wanted to offer something of who I was that was rooted in who I had become. Date Nite was the beginning of that, a ritual of connection, creation, and joy.
And now, Portal to Self is the next chapter. It holds everything I’ve gathered in my basket along the way. Each tool, each truth, and each transformation.
Over the years, I’ve studied the systems that help us remember who we are:
Numerology.
The Gene Keys.
Human Design.
Astrology.
Each one has offered a thread. And I’ve learned how to weave them together. That’s the beauty of this path. It’s not about one answer or one map. It’s about looking at them side by side and seeing the details in the overlap. The clarity in the echo. The magic in the pattern. This is the path I’ve walked. And now, it’s the one I’m here to share.
So I invite you to walk with me. To begin gathering the pieces of yourself and return to the deeper, truer essence of who you’ve always been.